Nur Atika Fitria
1 min readDec 31, 2018

The very last evening note of 2018..

It’s not really nice when people want to define themselves or even worse, tend to define others simply through their social media feeds.

I do believe that every individual in singular brings multitude of colors, layers and complexities deeper there. Just stop like you read all the pages while you barely finish a chapter. That’s why I do think socmed thingy somehow and sometimes is not a milieu where I belong. But somehow...sometimes...and sadly, it is the easiest way and place to fit in or at least pretend that you can fit in.

I will not let the social media’s display defines me, and vice versa, will not let me myself define others through their artificial life.

So my life plot twist by the end of 2018 was eventually, I determined to close one of my socmed accounts just because I’m so sick to see how people curate their lives’ image and identity, and paradoxically, sick of me who just do the same…

Somehow, sometimes, and sadly.