Imam Ibn Al Qayyim (may Allah be pleased with him):

“....don’t give life’s events more than what they are really worth...do not look for your self worth in the eyes of people; look for your worth from within your conscience. If your conscience is at peace then you will ascend high and if you truly know yourself then what is said about you won’t harm you.

Do not carry the worries of this life because this is for Allah. And do not carry the worries of sustenance because it is from Allah. And do not carry the anxiety for the future because it is in the Hands of Allah. Carry one thing: How to Please Allah. Because if you please Him. He Pleases you, fulfills you and enriches you.....

…Allah Does Not forget the good you do. Nor Does He forget the good you did to others and the pain you relieved them from. Nor will He forget the eye which was about to cry but you made it laugh.”